Nairobi Lady Shares How Her Boyfriend Abandoned Her Because She Refused To Quit Work For Her Mother

• A young woman from Nairobi met a well-educated, financially stable man from Thika and quickly bonded with him
• On her first visit to the village, her mother-in-law welcomed her warmly but later expressed her desire to quit her job.
• Matete Irene refused to quit her job, causing her boyfriend Tom to end their relationship after her mother told her she wouldn’t be a good wife.

A woman living in Nairobi told how she ended their relationship because her boyfriend refused to quit his job and move to the village.

Irene Matete told TUKO.co.ke She said her ex, Tom, immediately broke off their relationship when her mother told her she couldn’t be a good husband because he valued his job more than being a stay-at-home wife.

“The separation happened immediately. My mother broke off the relationship when she confirmed that I would not be a good wife because I chose my job over moving to the village,” Matete said.

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How did Matete meet Thika’s ex-boyfriend?

Matete said she met a modest, highly educated man who was both financially and mentally stable. Thika a few years ago.

Since she was in love, it wasn’t long before Tom introduced her to some of his relatives and friends in Nairobi.

“A few years ago, I met a gentleman from Thika. He was modest, highly educated, financially and spiritually stable, saved and had all the good qualities you can use to describe a man. Within a short time, I met some of his relatives and friends in Nairobi,” she added.

Matete said that one day, while he was attending a birthday party in honor of his ex-girlfriend’s brother, one of his cousins ​​came to him and revealed family secrets.

Tom had warned him before that most family members disliked him because he couldn’t keep secrets.

“This man also told me that most people hated this woman because she couldn’t keep a secret. “When the news reaches its ears, the world needs to know about it,” he explained.

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Irene Matete warns about troubled mother-in-law

The young woman said that Tom’s cousin told her that her future mother-in-law was a very difficult person and that she was the real reason for her two daughters’ divorce.

“Mother Tom is a bad woman. She has bad intentions towards everyone. She controls her children’s marriages and that’s why her two daughters are divorced. Have you asked her why her two brothers are not married? The problem is with their mother. She controls her daughters-in-law and turns them into maids. Unless she dies, she will not have any of her children.” she can’t have a happy marriage,” he quoted Tom’s cousin.

But this statement was not new to him; he had heard it before from one of his brother’s baby mamas.

“Until he left, he was complaining about this woman doing the same to him. “Before he landed there, someone else had left because of his mother,” he said.

Nairobi woman visited her mother-in-law

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One Facebook In the post, Matete said that Tom’s mother had asked her to visit the village several times, and every time they planned, something came up because either she or her husband was working.

They finally managed to go to his village for the long-awaited visit.

“On the date in question, we set out on a journey hoping to return to Nairobi in the evening as I had to go to work the next day,” he explained.

He said that the family welcomed them with joy and all kinds of food was prepared in their honor.

“We had fun until the evening and my mother-in-law started begging us to spend the night here and leave early in the morning. We hesitated but finally agreed. “I helped her prepare dinner and we talked until late at night,” he added.

Mother-in-law asks son’s girlfriend to quit her job

The young lady remembers Tom’s mother gossiping about her son’s baby mother during their late-night conversation.

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He added that the woman spoke badly about his baby mama and even added that his sons only fall in love with bad women.

“In between stories, he kept gossiping about the baby mama I met before. “He kept telling me how bad he was and how his sons were always in love with bad women,” he said.

The icing on the cake was that when he married his son, he suggested that Matete quit his job and stay in the village to look after the farmhouse.

Tom’s mother said that there was plenty of food and her husband would take care of her needs, so she did not need to work.

“He even told me that if I got married there, he would prefer me to quit my job and stay behind and look after the farm. “He told me they had plenty of food and that his son could clothe and feed me,” she recalled.

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“A wife only needs clothes and food. I want you to stay behind and take care of this farm. Working women are always busy and have no time for their homes. My daughters will get married and I will be left here alone… I want you to stop working and live with us,” he recalled the woman’s words. .

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The young lady said that her ex-boyfriend’s mother left her a set of instructions before going to bed.

She was told to skip work the next day, get up early to prepare breakfast, vacuum the house, wash the dishes, do laundry and other household chores.

“You may not go to work tomorrow. There is only one day left and you will not be fired. My daughters are very tired because they have been working for four days since my maid got sick. I want you to wake up early and prepare breakfast.” Let’s rest my daughters tomorrow.

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You will find milk on the table, prepare tea and sweep the compound. You will wash these dishes in the morning. I want you to help me do some laundry, then wake up and rest while we wait to tell you what we’re having for lunch. “Get up at 7 o’clock so you can finish everything on time,” he quoted the woman’s instructions.

Matete says he woke up early the next day, made breakfast, and left for work. She stated that quitting her job to prove that she is wife material is not part of her plans.

Later that day, the woman asked her son what Matete’s answer was about quitting his job, and when he refused, Tom broke up with him.

“My mom then asked me for my answer about leaving her job. When he told me I rejected the idea, he said I wouldn’t be a good wife because I couldn’t listen to him and their house would be abandoned.

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“This is how we broke up: I chose my job instead of moving to his village, and he chose his mother over me,” he concluded.

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As a separate news by TUKO.co.kea woman She cried uncontrollably after her boyfriend left her On Valentine’s Day.

In the leaked WhatsApp screenshots, the man tells his girlfriend that their relationship is over and wishes her the best after she asks him to do something for her.

Heartbroken, the woman begged her man not to leave her, but it was too late; The man did not respond to her texts and ignored numerous calls from her.

Editing was done by Otukho Jackson, multimedia journalist and copy editor at TUKO.co.ke.

Source: TUKO.co.ke