3 Factors That Prevent a Man from Seeing a Woman as Marriage Material | Rori Raye

Are you a woman who adds a lot to herself in every field other than love and relationships? Do guys stop calling after a few dates, come back, or tell you they’re not interested or don’t feel the right chemistry with you?

Maybe you wonder if men are afraid of you because you are a strong and successful woman. The truth is that a man does not like a successful woman. But a man may be offended by your relationship with him.

Here are three ways you may unintentionally cause a man to stop seeing you as a real partner:

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Three common factors that prevent a man from seeing a woman as marriage material are:

1. You belittle your success

You act like you’re “less than” because you’re afraid of scaring a man. You’re playing down your strengths and achievements because you think he won’t like competing with you.

Men love successful women and According to statistics from the Pew Research Center, 12 percent of marriages woman who earns more than her husband.

If you are a successful woman, enjoy your success! Manage everything at work, be managerial and multitask. But when you’re with a man, don’t try to dominate him.

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2. You try to manage it

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You may be doing this without realizing it. For example, he’ll tell you about a problem he’s having and you say, “You should do this…” or “I wouldn’t do that if I were you…”

It makes him feel controlled – as if he were a child and you are his mother. This is not a pleasant feeling for a man. She doesn’t want to be mothered, she wants to feel respected and appreciated.

According to a study from the University of North DakotaPeople who feel disrespected in their relationships tend to be less satisfied, and when they feel respected, they are more satisfied. You You can let a man know what you want and you need to simply say, “I want this,” “I don’t want that,” or “This would be good for me.”

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3. You do too much

One disadvantage of being a successful woman is that you know how to do many things, often all at once. When you want something in your relationship, it is difficult for you to expect him to do it.

It’s easier to call first, make plans and decide on the venue; All this so you don’t have to feel frustrated and impatient. The solution to this is to learn to be surprised by a man and not work so hard to make things happen.

A woman who is busy rowing the “boat of love” leaves the man with nothing to do. She either sits back and enjoys the ride, or she does what we tell her to do — and I’ve never met a woman who thinks both of those things are attractive in a man.

I understand how all this feels. I am a woman who instinctively wants to take charge, and this is how I used these strengths: damage my relationships.

Over time, I learned how to use my masculine, take-charge energy to succeed at work while essentially giving up any control over a man. Research from Pew Research Center It shows that men prefer women with feminine characteristics as spouses.

This turned everything around for me almost overnight and allowed me to have a wonderful 20+ year marriage with the man of my dreams.

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Rori Raye is a relationship coach who has helped thousands of women transform their love lives.