3 Disturbingly Common Reasons Why Even Happy Husbands Leave Their Loved Wives | James Allen Hanrahan

It’s devastating when your husband leaves you and you don’t know why. As you learn how to deal with a breakup, you may spend months, sometimes even years, trying to figure it out. But when you’re stuck in the past, it’s worse than letting it go.

This thought keeps you tied to him and prevents you from meeting anyone else. While many women think that fear of commitment causes the husbands they love to leave them, there are several other reasons, and unfortunately, some of them have to do with you.

Here are 3 painfully honest reasons why husbands leave the wives they love:

1. Constantly wants more, better, or different

This is hard work because you may feel like you only care about yourself and your needs, which is a wonderful thing. But when you’re constantly wanting more from your husbandYou are giving him the impression that he is better and different, that he cannot please you and that what he does is not enough.

You touched this wound when your husband said to you, “I can’t please you. I’m letting you go so you can find someone who can.” Whether true or false, this is often the number one reason husbands leave.

You can still say no to what you want or don’t want, but there’s no cure for that. improve your communication with him. Establishing healthy communication with your partner can make your relationship more successful, According to a study in 2017. And after all, if he can’t treat you right, separation can actually be a blessing.

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2. She becomes a mother

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When you start to tell him what to do, she becomes his mother. If you’ve been taught that love means taking care of other people and their needs, you may find yourself chasing after him, solving his problems, and in extreme cases, paying his bills.

Another danger is that he may like it and let you do everything for him, just like his mother did. You may have a relationship where there is no intimacy and eventually the husbands leave because they are not turned on by their mothers. According to statisticsUp to 33% of marriages lack intimacy.

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3. Incredibly immature

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Sometimes, without any effort, you just inheriting a husband who is still a man. He (hopefully) hasn’t learned from his mother that his wives, children, animals, and planet are not here for his satisfaction.

He has not learned to give, protect and value his wife, his children, his animals and the planet; This is often why husbands leave you when things get tough. He only cares about what feels good in the moment and instant gratification. In summary, you have a (dare I say it?) Peter Pan.

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I can’t tell you all the reasons why husbands leave, but I can tell you this: We are always attracted to the right or wrong person until we learn our lesson. He who leaves before learning the lesson repeats the lesson. And you know you’ve learned the lesson when you don’t want to repeat it anymore.

Be careful to ask for something better, something different, and see what he willingly gives. Husbands fall in love when they give. If he doesn’t care about your feelings and leaves you without any explanation, he is not your husband but someone else’s son.

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James Allen Hanrahan is a dating and relationship coach for women based in Los Angeles. She is also the author of “A Life of Love” and “Dating Advice for Alpha Women.”