Experts say you can manage bipartisan relations

Columbia, SC (WACH) — Conflict surrounding politics can occur in all types of relationships, including friendships, family, and romantic relationships. But experts say having different political views doesn’t have to result in turmoil.

A study by the Pew Research Center shows that Democrats and Republicans have negative perceptions of the opposing party. Despite people’s strong sense of commitment to their political beliefs, some people have deep feelings or affection for those on the opposing side. Sarah Raysor, a woman who identifies as a queer black woman, said political conversations with her family can be difficult. “They’re definitely heating up, not like fist cuffs, but they’ve definitely disrupted some relationships,” Raysor said.

Associate Professor of Psychology at Newberry College. Carrie Caudill emphasized the need to “respect the person rather than the position.” Dr. “Most people like to feel like they’re right, and most people like to feel like they know best,” Caudill explained. She encouraged couples to focus on listening to friends and family rather than defending them. “First of all, did I listen, did I really give you space, did I give you space without getting defensive or reacting, did I really give you space to understand why?” Dr. Did you question Caudill?

While differing political views can be a deal breaker in some relationships, Dr. Caudill assured me that most of these could be resolved.