If You're Feeling These 4 Passionate But Turbulent Things, Psychology Says You Might Be In A Karmic Relationship

Many of us are programmed from a young age into adulthood to dream of that fairytale relationship and “happily ever after.” Some of us spend our entire lives searching for our “soulmate” or “The One.” However, there are also karmic relationships among the relationships we get stuck in along the way, often without realizing it.

Although being in a karmic relationship can feel like you’ve stepped on a landmine, they have the power to teach us more about love and ourselves than any other relationship. These are relationships, whether romantic, platonic, familial, or another type, that no one necessarily wants but has probably had at some point in their life.

Author, reiki master and clairvoyant Amanda Linette Meder explains By defining karmic relationships as “a romantic bond with someone in your soul group,” we state that these relationships are “designed to heal past life lessons and pain.”

It is often not easy to define such a bond, as the person in your karmic relationship may appear to be your soulmate or twin flame. However, there are certain signs of a karmic relationship to look out for.

If you feel these four passionate things, you may be in a karmic relationship:

1. It started as ‘love at first sight’ – accompanied by a wave of deja vu

Whether you believe in love at first sight or not is one thing. Research shows that It’s more “attraction at first sight” that causes a person to become emotionally attached.

But if you’re instantly attracted to someone for reasons you can’t put into words—yet still feel a sense of familiarity, as if you knew that person in a past life—there’s likely a karmic connection involved.

2. The relationship has emotional ups and downs

A couple in a karmic relationship who experienced love at first sight Volodymyr TVERDOKHLIB | Shutterstock

No relationship is easy and they all require effort. However, karmic relationships will regularly push you into a cycle of blissful highs and devastating lows that normal relationships do not experience.

2019 survey He found that long-term healthy couples focus on a “solution-oriented approach to disagreements” and work together to resolve problems.

But in Karmic relationships there is constant drama and often fighting over and over about the same things. It sounds like you learned the lesson you needed to learn from the relationship and now it’s time to let go.

3. A codependent relationship

This A big red flag in any relationship.. As with any situation where codependency monopolizes the relationship, karmic relationships are all-consuming.

In a codependent relationship, you don’t feel comfortable unless you are with your partner all the time, you begin to have a distorted self-image, and boundaries disappear.

According to the Gottman InstituteCodependent relationships are harmful because they cause you to rely on someone else for your happiness, often damaging your sense of self in the process. In short, you are physically and emotionally dependent on this person and your relationship.

But in a karmic relationship things often go one step further; Even when you are with your partner, you feel uneasy, as if something is not right no matter what you do.

Additionally, your self-image plummets, you devalue yourself, and you throw a wrecking ball at your boundaries. None of these will lead to a happy ending for you or your addicted partner.

4. Doesn’t last long

Due to the above factors, karmic relationships are known to turn into a constant nightmare for partners. breaking up again and again to make up. It is exhausting for one’s support system to watch over and over again and remain supportive. Think about how exhausted people in relationships are.

As you can probably guess, this level of volatility is not sustainable in the long term unless the partners in the relationship manage to overcome challenges by truly taking into account the lessons that need to be learned so that they can grow stronger together.

If You're Feeling These 4 Passionate But Turbulent Things, Psychology Says You Might Be In A Karmic Relationship fizkes | Shutterstock

But for most karmic relationships, no matter how toxic—and there is a high current of toxicity in every karmic relationship—the connection between two people is so magnetic that they feel as if they can’t help but pull away. together. It doesn’t matter if one or both know in their hearts that this may not be right for either of them. They can’t seem to help themselves.

Karmic relationships can be viewed in a positive light because they serve a purpose and opportunity for growth. They are a source of personal development for those within them. You gain a sense of awareness that allows you to change yourself for the better.

In summary, karmic relationships are lessons that enable us to heal and develop.

A karmic relationship is not the same as soulmates or twin flames.

Karmic, soulmate and twin flame relationships can feel similar, especially when you’re in them—but There are obvious differences. You won’t know the lasting effects and true label of each until you’ve had time to process them.

Karmic relationships are typically relationships with people whose purpose is to teach us a lesson. Although the love in these relationships is intense, it is often toxic, one-sided, full of miscommunication, and does not last long. Partners in karmic relationships are not soulmates.

Soulmate relationships, on the other hand, allow us to strive to become a better person together with the other person whose soul parallels yours. There is no interdependence; instead a deep, ever-growing relationship between two souls. No constant fighting, uncertainty or imbalance.

Twin flame relationships transcend all labels when it comes to a karmic relationship. Your twin flame may not even be a romantic relationship; they can be friendsfamily members or someone you have an extremely strong bond with.

The couple who is not in a karmic relationship PeopleImages.com – Yuri A | Shutterstock

A karmic relationship cannot be a twin flame because the love you experience with your twin flame is so extraordinary and incomparable; It encourages deep soul growth without the volatility you find in a karmic relationship.

As Meder puts it, karmic connections are “challenging to say the least, heartbreaking to say the least.”

Every karmic relationship is temporary.

Let’s say you find yourself in the loop of a karmic relationship. In this case, you already know how painful and equally exhilarating it is and that it is filled with the power to cheer up both partners.

Remember that for the vast majority, karmic relationships do not last long; This is not their purpose. But like any relationship, it’s designed to help you grow.

Marla Materson is an award-winning author, spiritual life coach, matchmaker, energy healer and intuitive reader.