Research reveals that powerful people are not very good lovers and cheat more; here’s why

The image of powerful people—whether billionaire CEOs, charismatic politicians, or influential celebrities—often has an irresistible appeal in fiction. On the big screen or in romance novels, they are portrayed as strong, passionate and eternally desired. But new research suggests that the reality behind power may not be so romantic, especially when it comes to fidelity in relationships.

A recent study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior reveals a surprising connection between sexual behavior. power and disloyalty. Research explores how power dynamics in close relationships can increase the likelihood of cheating. The findings suggest that power (in the form of wealth, influence, or social status) can significantly alter an individual’s self-perception and behavior in romantic relationships, leading to increased infidelity.

Power and trust: A dangerous connection

The findings of the study showed that individuals who feel stronger than others in their relationships create an increased sense of trust. But this self-confidence may make them feel entitled to pursue other romantic or sexual opportunities. Researchers suggest that those with a high sense of power tend to view themselves as more attractive and believe they have more options outside of the relationship, which can lead to a breakdown in commitment to their partner.

People who consider themselves stronger tend to believe that they have something more valuable to offer than their partners. This sense of superiority leads them to think that they are actually entitled to other relationships, especially if they think they are more desirable or more capable of potentially attracting others.

Gender does not play a role

Interestingly, the research also disproved the long-held assumption that men are more prone to cheat than women. It has often been proven in previous studies that men are more prone to cheating due to their higher social status and the resulting opportunities. However, here the study reported no significant gender differences in the likelihood of infidelity when power was included as a factor. Both men and women in positions of power were equally likely to go astray when they perceived themselves to be more desirable or thought they had more options outside their relationships.

dark side of the force

Power makes people more attractive and confident. However, this situation is fraught with risks for relationships. The same qualities that make someone successful or influential (like confidence and a sense of authority) can also make them more likely to ignore promises they make to their partner. They may feel as if they have “better options” or that someone else will always be available to meet any needs, which disrupts the foundation of trust and loyalty in the relationship.
The study’s findings highlight the importance of understanding how power dynamics can shape behaviors and perceptions in close relationships. While not every person in a position of power will cheat, the likelihood increases when that power affects the way they view themselves and their relationships.

While power may seem attractive on the outside, it has potentially devastating effects on personal relationships. People with power often exhibit a sense of confidence and authority, making them more likely to cheat. For those in relationships, it is clear that feeling powerful can increase confidence in the short term, but can create serious problems for commitment and fidelity in the long term.