Psychology Reveals 3 Weird Reasons Why Men Won’t Let You Go But Won’t Date You either | Charles J. Orlando

The million dollar question is why after some kind of breakup do some men return or reconnect with the woman after some time? Men learn from their mistakes, but some don’t learn as quickly as some women hope, and sometimes they come back to try again after learning new things.

This is generally not well received. The question is why do they come back and sometimes even ask to get back together?

Three reasons why guys won’t let you go but won’t date you either:

1. They miss physicality

No one wants to give up a good intimacy. If there is a good physical relationship, that is a good reason for him to return.

Can the woman separate the physical elements that work in the relationship from the emotional aspects that may be missing? hanging out with an ex It’s not unusual A study from The Journal of Adolescent Research It states that half of people stay with their ex after a breakup.

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2. They just want a change

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When it comes to relationships, most men are experiential learners and learn more by making mistakes. After they’ve had a few, they change things (behaviors, patterns, etc.) and likely go into their next relationship more prepared. A study conducted by the American Psychological Association in 2022 It even shows how making mistakes helps us learn better.

If he made a lot of mistakes with a past partner but felt there was some kind of connection, he might go back for a second try. But remember that relationship dynamics they tend to remain the same even on the second try.

After all, if milk goes bad when you take it out of the fridge, you don’t put it back and hope it’s fresh tomorrow. Sometimes you have to throw it away.

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3. They are alone and helpless again

Men are on the comeback tends to reconnect with past girlfriends and lovers. The reasons may vary, but mostly stem from the above-mentioned and motivations. By reaching out with a simple phone call, email or text message, he will test the situation and gauge what the woman’s response makes possible.

Here’s my advice: While some old relationships can be successful, some changes need to be made. Unless individuals fundamentally change for themselves, a revitalized relationship runs the risk of resuming exactly where the same failed dynamics left off.

Remember, there was a reason the relationship failed in the first place. A YouGov poll It found that 44% of people got back together with their ex.

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Charles J. Orlando is a relationship expert known as the author of the acclaimed relationships book series. Women’s Problem is Men.