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My husband pays me $100 a week to cook and clean full time

My husband pays me 0 a week to cook and clean full time

A woman who quit her job to become a traditional woman revealed that her husband pays her $100 every week to cook and clean full-time.

Alyssa ‘Aly’ Dee, 28, met her future husband Tom, 51, while they were both working in the army.

However, after getting engaged, she decided to put her dreams aside and left her profession to focus on taking care of him and their home.

She recently told Truly that she made this decision because she felt like Tom “wanted her to pay a little more attention.”

Aly now spends her day cooking, cleaning, and doing other household chores while he is at work, and in return she pays him $100 a week.

My husband pays me 0 a week to cook and clean full time

A woman who quit her job to become a traditional woman revealed her husband pays her $100 every week to cook and clean full-time

Despite online trolls’ nasty comments about their situation, Aly insisted she was much ‘happier’ this way and advised all women to follow her lead.

‘My husband makes me work around the house,’ she told the publication. ‘This is the best job I’ve ever had. I’d probably be taken into account with his bankroll, he covers my living.

‘I encourage other women to follow the same dynamic for their future financial success.’

Aly, who has been with Tom for two-and-a-half years and is pregnant with their first child, insisted it was her idea to stop working.

‘I didn’t even know I wanted a traditional relationship. ‘Honest to God,’ Tom added.

‘Until I got into a relationship with Aly, I didn’t even know how wonderful it was to have a traditional gender-segregated relationship.

‘I provide a home, protection and supplies. What I want in return is support and a clean house so I can go out into the world and focus on the outside world.’

Tom said he started giving Aly $100 a week so she could go on the occasional shopping trip with “snacks and coffee.”

Alyssa 'Aly' Dee, 28, met her future husband Tom, 51, while they were both working in the army.

Alyssa ‘Aly’ Dee, 28, met her future husband Tom, 51, while they were both working in the army.

However, after getting engaged, she decided to put her dreams on hold.

She quit her job to focus on taking care of herself and their home

However, after getting engaged, she decided to put her dreams aside and left her profession to focus on taking care of him and their home.

“We got rid of all her credit cards and opened new credit cards under my account, so now I can see all her purchases,” she said.

‘He doesn’t want a lot of things he doesn’t really need, he’s pretty financially disciplined.’

Aly said she enjoys not having to look after her bank account or worry about finances and prefers to leave all of that to her husband.

He added that his setup was much better than having to work a “real job” with a boss who “didn’t care about him.”

‘The alternative is to go to a real job with a real boss. “Remember that he is a man who doesn’t care about you,” she said.

‘(Then) at the end of the shift, you’re not on his mind. He would kick you out tomorrow, my husband won’t kick me out tomorrow.’

Aly frequently documents her lifestyle on YouTube, where she has over 182,000 subscribers.

He said people often made unfair ‘assumptions’ about him and called him names such as ‘lazy’ or ‘uneducated’.

He added that their setup was much better than having to work a 'real job' with a boss who 'didn't care about him'.

He added that their setup was much better than having to work a ‘real job’ with a boss who ‘didn’t care about him’.

She now spends her day cooking, cleaning, and doing other household chores while he works, and in return she pays him $100 a week.

She now spends her day cooking, cleaning, and doing other household chores while he works, and in return she pays him $100 a week.

Aly said she enjoys not having to look after her bank account or worry about finances and prefers to leave all of that to her husband.

Aly said she enjoys not having to look after her bank account or worry about finances and prefers to leave all of that to her husband.

He also revealed that Tom had been accused of being a ‘gold digger’, which he thought was ridiculous.

‘He wanted $100 a week, what kind of gold digger would want that?’ he joked.

“There are also a lot of positive comments from women who finally feel seen,” Aly added.

‘The positive comments I receive from women show me that I am doing the right thing.

‘Some women these days are perfectly happy to follow the lead of an employer who doesn’t care about them.

‘I want women to know they have other options.’

In the end, Aly and Tom insisted that following traditional gender roles only strengthened their love.

“You will never be able to eliminate its genetics and biology,” Tom added. ‘I’m masculine, so I can go out and provide resources and I feel great.’

“I think most modern relationships are not happy, men act like women, women act like men and when they get together they have a really unbalanced dynamic,” Aly concluded.