Psychology Reveals the Attitude That Draws Men Like Bees to Honey | Lucia D.

I was flying first class recently and noticed the obvious: First class was mostly men. Why? Because a man’s priority is career, a woman’s priority is relationships. Women are programmed to put men at the top of the list. But now it’s time to turn off autopilot and face the facts.

Before divorce has become socially acceptablewomen could count on being married and cared for for the rest of their lives. At a time when the chance of staying married was roughly 50%, According to divorce statisticsIt is no longer acceptable or wise to trust that a man will come and “save” you.

The times in my life when I wasn’t prioritizing men were when I was doing something I was passionate about. Those were the days when it didn’t matter if a guy called or if I hadn’t seen him in a week.

But these were also times when the guy moved towards me and became more interested in me because he could see that he wasn’t my main focus. it wasn’t me playing hard to get, I it was hard to get.

This elusive attitude will attract men like bees to honey.

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Instead of talking about the relationship and where it’s going, talk about the new class you’re taking or the project you’re working on.

Then you will be more attractive because men will know that you are not just looking for someone to pay the bills. Men admire women having goals (outside of marriage) and who seek to make their lives richer on all levels (financial, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual).

Today men say what they want independent woman. Most of them aren’t interested in a helpless little girl that they should be taking care of.

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In his book Why Men Love B****, Author Sherry Argov says: “Men tend to approach love as if it were negotiating a business deal. Men often label a weaker woman as a liability and a stronger woman as an asset. A strong woman has goals and doesn’t give herself away.

It’s time for women to make their careers/businesses/passions as important as their romantic relationships. In doing this, you “kill two birds with one stone”. And it seems women already are. According to a YouGov poll54% of American women desire to have both a family and a career.

As you move towards your goals, you can also effortlessly becomes more attractive to men. Men get engaged to women who are already “engaged” and have interesting and happy lives.

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Lucia is a dating and relationship expert and the author of: Lucia’s Love Lessons. Dr. Phil has appeared as an expert on radio and TV shows such as The CBS Early Show and Good Day LA.