7 Signs of a Truly Liked Person, According to Experts

Admiration is always a two-way street and often becomes a crossroads of cloverleaves. Although there are many lanes that will increase the complexity of your Path of Adoration, if your lane is congested it will impede the flow and the adoration will be diverted from the path.

While admiration is certainly a compliment, being admired is also a responsibility; Likewise, with great power comes great responsibility; a person can set the style, rules, or behavior that is appreciated and emulated by groups of people. So if you’re admired, carry that burden of jealousy with pride And responsibility.

Here are 7 signs of a truly admired person, according to experts:

1. Has strong boundaries

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Create good, clear, healthy boundaries. This is the important step in gaining respect and admiration and developing healthy interpersonal relationships. 2016 research He states that couples who communicate regularly and share their feelings experience a higher level of satisfaction in their relationships.

— Loulou PalmerCoach/Mentor

2. They create win-win situations for others

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In a win-win situation, no one loses. A petty, aggressive person thrives on revenge. They want to see others fail because to them that means they are successful.

But a determined person does not feel renewed by the pain of others. After all, they want to get along with everyone.

determined people, The 2022 research tells us thisThey trust the decisions they make. Remember that disrespectful people do not respect themselves at the end of the day.

— Izzy CaseyMFA, freelance writer

3. They never make others feel small

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Never belittle or make others feel small. At the same time, do not try to reduce what you do to make the other person comfortable. If so, they will feel comfortable You are open and honest when you talk about yourself and you’ll enjoy it even more when you ask questions that focus on them, not yourself, for the answers.

— Dr. Barbara Becker HolsteinPositive psychologist, author and filmmaker

4. They focus on the team rather than themselves

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Respect and admiration often follow when others recognize a commitment to helping a team succeed and grow.

— Nia Tiptonpopular culture and contemporary issues writer

5. They communicate with respect

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On the whole, be able to communicate and maintaining healthy boundaries will increase the level of respect people show you. Research from Harvard University It confirms that one of the best qualities of an admired leader is effective communication.

— Mickey AndersonPh.D., LCMHC

6. They are not distracted while listening

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How refreshing to see someone talking to someone actively attentive? It becomes rare and gains instant respect. active listening, Harvard reportsIt is an indispensable communication skill for admired people.

— Alex Matherscoach, author and illustrator

7. They are not unattractive

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We’ve all heard some version of this: “Bullies are insecure/unhappy/powerless people.” And it usually rings true.

If you constantly see yourself being treated badly, this may also be a sign of the people around you. When insecure people notice how you “receive” the hate they direct at you. They will be more likely to treat you like a punching bag than those who are less tolerant.

— Yona DervishWriter

In a competitive culture, psychology confirmsRespect and admiration must be earned. Earning this socially demonstrated respect requires us to start from the inside by creating clear boundaries for ourselves in the way we interact with others.

When we have a clear concept about ourselves, we can better navigate the interpersonal challenges we face every day. Allow yourself to dedicate yourself to active communication to create winning environments where others can’t help but respect your skills.

Will Curtis is a creator, editor, and activist who has spent the last decade working remotely.