Five potential red flags in your partner’s home

Someone’s home can tell you a lot about that person, so it may be the best place to look for any red flags when looking for a potential partner.

For those already in a relationship, this can also be a good indicator of upcoming red flags or how your partner might approach the relationship.

Founder and chairman LUMA Luxury MatchmakingApril Davis recently revealed certain items that could be red flags in relationships.

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Accordingly IOLthese items can give you insight into your partner’s mindset and approach to the relationship.

Here are five potential red flags in your partner’s home:

1. Photos of your ex

“If your partner hasn’t taken the necessary steps to remove pictures of their ex, this could be a sign of unresolved feelings or emotional baggage,” April says.

“They may be holding on to past memories, which means they will have a hard time fully committing to their relationship with you.”

2. Excessive clutter

“Clutter doesn’t make or break a relationship, but it can signal that your partner is avoiding dealing with personal issues,” April explains.

“Neglecting their living space may be a reflection of how they may neglect other areas of their lives, including your relationship.”

3. ‘Pick-up artist’ books

Books devoted to “finding” a potential partner or how to approach partners and relationships can be a red flag.

“Your partner’s interest in these books may indicate that he or she struggles with vulnerability, openness, or self-confidence. He or she may prefer to rely on scripted interactions rather than establishing a real, emotional connection,” says April.

4. Expired calendar

“An expired calendar could be a sign of slight procrastination or even avoidance of upcoming responsibilities,” says April.

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This can be true for many other items that signal some form of procrastination.

5. A drawer full of takeaway menus

“While not a deal breaker per se, constantly relying on takeout may indicate a lack of concern for health or financial planning,” says April.

“It’s also worth considering whether this indicates a lack of interest in contributing to shared home life, especially if your partner is not willing to help with household chores.”

Remember, these are all potential red flags, and it doesn’t mean you should break up with your partner just because they have them at home.